What is a Divorce Coach?

Do I really need one?

coach at the gymWhether you are considering divorce, already in the process, or moving forward onto your new path, you may find you need help. What kind of help? It may be dealing with feelings of negativity or resentment or feeling lost or overwhelmed.

Or maybe, you just need to have someone to vent to (so you don’t burden your friends with another story about feelings of rejection).

Let’s face it – you have never felt this alone or vulnerable before.

But, beyond needing emotional support, there are practical, everyday decisions that need to be made. How do you choose an attorney? How do I tell my kids? How do I deal with difficult co-parenting situations? What do I want my life to look like after divorce?

Personal. Relatable. Private.

Let me introduce myself. My name is Melissa Provence. I am an Advanced Dispute Resolution Specialist, Mediator, Certified Divorce Coach™, and DCA™ Divorce Conflict Coach. I work directly with clients to help them navigate the emotional landscape of a painful divorce.

I am a shoulder to lean on – but, also a guide to help you through one of the toughest moments of your life.

Melissa Provence, CDC, DCC

Personal.

kids sitting on the couch with parents arguing in the backgroundWhat is your situation? We will work together at all stages of your divorce. Whether you are just reviewing your options or know this is the path you need to take; I will be by your side giving you the information you need to make these critical decisions and to handle the fallout from those decisions.

Every divorce journey is unique, and my services are tailored to suit your individual needs. I will provide you with a tool kit of practical strategies and techniques that will help you to navigate your divorce with confidence and emotional control.

I will lay out what each stage will involve and ensure that you have an effective Divorce Support Team to help in any scenario. This is essential for ensuring that you feel supported and have expert advice whenever you need it. Together, we will uncover the real you. We will find what makes you tick and motivates you in your new life as a single person.

Relatable.

How could I possibly know what you’re going through? In 2017, my husband suddenly announced that he wanted a divorce. We had been married for twelve years with two young children and until that moment, I would have never suspected either of us were unhappy with our relationship.

My entire life changed overnight. I went from living the ideal Woodlands “lifestyle” as a stay- at-home mother to a divorced, single parent who had no idea who she was as an individual and what the future held. The one thing I was sure of was that I never wanted another person to go through divorce alone.

Private.

Stop telling everyone… start talking to me. Let’s face it, you are in a lot of pain. You have a whole range of emotions and nowhere to put them. You may be confiding in friends, co- workers, or family but worrying that you’re burning them out. And to be honest, they love us so can they really be objective?

mother and daughter readingA divorce coach, like a fitness coach, will tell you the truth about where you are right now and then support you in getting you to where you need to be.

Together we will build your personal strength so that you can deal with negative emotions more effectively, enabling you to heal as you move forward.

Let’s Talk!

Let’s set a time to talk about if divorce coaching is right for you. Our Discovery Sessions are a wonderful way to get to know each other and pinpoint you needs. Book a complimentary Discovery Session today.

My coaching is personalized to you and available in many forms, so we ensure it meets your specific needs. Whether you choose a single session to get you on track or on-going support there is something for every situation – Melissa Provence

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